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Benefits of Male Chastity

The male chastity lifestyle isn’t just for fun! There are many great benefits to locking a man’s penis in a chastity device. Some help you improve in the bedroom, and others can improve other parts of your life.

Keep reading to learn all about these benefits, and how male chastity can improve your life!

Why Do Men Wear Chastity Cages?

Many men enjoy being locked up in male chastity cages to help them maintain a pledge of chastity. There are several reasons to do this, but most often it’s as part of a female led relationship where the woman takes on the role of the dominant partner, and the man becomes the submissive partner.

There are plenty of reasons a woman might want to put her man in a cage. From simple curiosity, a sexual fetish, or even to deal with trust issues.

One of the most common misconceptions though, is that wearing a chastity cage must be bad for a man. It’s not natural, and it can’t be healthy to stop his erections, can it?

Luckily this isn’t true at all! There are countless men all around the world who’ve been practicing male chastity for years with no issues whatsoever. In fact, male chastity carries many benefits that can help improve the lives of both the subservient man, and the dominant woman.

All the Benefits of Male Chastity

Black steel cage

Black Steel Male Chastity Cage

So, what exactly are these benefits? There are, of course, sexual benefits such as better, more intense orgasms, improvement if you suffer with premature ejaculation, and the extra trust and strength that your relationship will benefit from.

Some benefits extend beyond the bedroom though, and male chastity is a powerful tool to improve a man. You can use it as a punishment if a man doesn’t live up to expectations, and being uncaged can be a reward if a man performs well during chastity. This kind of attitude works great for things like weight loss, chores, or giving up vices like smoking and drinking.

Let's go over each of these benefits in more detail…

Stop Having Premature Orgasms

Premature orgasms are something that plagues many men. No matter how hard they try, they just can’t last in the bedroom. This might be something that only affects sex, or could also affect masturbation or oral sex.

Male chastity is the perfect tool to start working on this difficulty. Being caged prevents erection and masturbation, so any issues caused by masturbating too much are naturally taken care of.

Once uncaged though, a man will still be at the mercy of his Mistress. If he cums too quickly, she might decide to punish him, or make him wait longer before his next period of freedom. It’s in his interest to follow her instructions, and only finish when she gives him permission.

At first it might be difficult, but the more a man practises this kind of restraint the easier it will become. A Mistress can also make this easier by rewarding her man when he does well, not just punishing him when he fails.

Even men practicing chastity alone can engage in this kind of training by using a timer to countdown to when they can orgasm, and giving themselves their own punishments when they fail.

The Most Intense Orgasms of Your Life

Any man who’s taken a break from masturbation or sex will know how good it feels when you finally get to cum. The same thing applies with chastity too!

While caged, there’s no chance at all of orgasm, so you can be sure that a man will be raring to go when he’s finally released. And when he does reach climax it’s sure to be explosive.

Chastity includes an additional aspect though. While caged a man will often be tempted to touch or play with himself, but be completely blocked. He also won’t be able to get an erection. When he’s finally allowed some pleasure, he’ll be more excited than ever which can make the orgasms much more intense than normal.

Strengthen Your Relationships

Glistening steel cage

Glistening Steel Penis Cage

One thing that any good chastity relationship needs is trust. It takes a great deal of trust for a man to hand over control of his penis to a woman. He needs to know that things will be safe, and that she isn’t going to abuse her new power.

It’s also an opportunity to learn more about each other too. A man might be exposed to new kinds of pleasures that he never would have been willing to try before. He can also learn a lot more about what his partner enjoys, as giving her more pleasure is a great way to earn more freedom and maybe even an orgasm.

All of these things combined mean that any relationship that makes it past the initial teething problems with chastity are likely to be stronger than ever!

Increase And Control Your Sex Drive

In some cases, a man might think that chastity will be simple and easy. This is particularly the case if the man has a particularly low sex drive, and doesn’t masturbate often.

Ironically, these situations can also be a great reason to try male chastity. Being locked up and completely unable to enjoy pleasure even if they want to can be surprisingly motivating and tempting. Whenever you aren’t allowed to do something, it often becomes all you can think about.

It also gives a woman the opportunity to tease her man, trying to get him riled up yet still unable to indulge his urges because of the cage. Think of it as an advanced kind of foreplay. If you get him hot enough under the collar, then when the cage finally comes off he’ll be raring and ready to go!

Other Benefits of Sexual Abstinence

Moving out of the bedroom, chastity can be a great motivator to complete any goal you put your mind to!

Looking to lose weight? Your Mistress can have a weekly weigh in, and decide how much pleasure you’ll get that week. Trying to quit smoking? Every sneaky cigarette could mean one more day in the cage.

Even training yourself to indulge in hobbies more regularly can be helped by chastity. Need some motivation to read a book or draw a picture, what if your reward was a sneaky blowjob from your Mistress.

Chastity can help in any way you want to! The flexibility of your pledge means that you and your Mistress can tailor it to your personal situation and use it as a tool to improve many aspects of your lives.

Get Started With Male Chastity Today

Of course you don’t have to figure this all out right away. All you need to do to get started is make the decision, and pick up a cage. Once you’ve got a handle on the basics, you can start experimenting with different aspects of chastity, and see which ways it can improve your life!

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Michael Cole

Michael is the author of the Total Chastity Diary and has been in and out of chastity since his mid-thirties. He’s now 41. He lives and works in Boston, has a white-collar job, and is single by choice. 

“There’s nothing hugely special about me. I’d describe myself as your typical modern, forward-thinking guy. I enjoy sports, staying healthy, love my family and friends, and have a satisfying career that pushes me to work hard so I can enjoy some of life's luxuries. 

I’m whatever constitutes as “normal.” It just so happens that I also enjoy the feeling of putting my cock in a cage, leaving it there for a week or two, then reaping the benefits of being released from my cage. 

Starting my chastity journey felt like starting any other new hobby or interest. I wanted to make sure I was doing it right and had good equipment to help me achieve the results I wanted. But when I began looking into male chastity and cock cages, what I found was a lot of fetish talk. 

While I accept this is what male chastity means for some - dressing up as a sissy, being spanked by a Dominant and whatever - the kinky kicks aren’t what I’m into. 

My hope with the Total Chastity  Diary is to bring a more matter-of-fact voice to chastity experiences.”

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