Are You A Sissy Slave?

The loss of a man’s penis can have interesting (and some would say wonderful) effects on his personality. Often they become more attentive, more caring and more loving. As they engage in submissive behavior they might become less aggressive or speak in a softer and more docile way. And for many Mistresses, this is exactly the desired effect.

But many of the traits that slaves pick up while wearing their cage are traditionally viewed as more feminine. So it makes complete sense that sissy play often heavily overlaps with male chastity. But are you simply a less masculine man? Or a full blown sissy slut? Let’s find out.

What is Sissy Play?

Before we get into the different kinds of sissy, and the kinds of things they do, we should probably start with something simple. What is sissy play?

Put simply, sissy play is when a male participant takes on a feminine role in the scenario.

In practice though, this can mean wildly different things to different men.

The Scale of Femininity

The easiest way to explain the massive range of sissy play is with an example…

Slave A wears his chastity cage at weekends as a fun kink with his wife. Sometimes, she makes him wear her underwear and dresses to humiliate him.

Slave B wears a small pink chastity cage as often as he can. He cross dresses in all public situations, wears make-up, and takes on a female name.

Two wildly different scenarios, but both men are enjoying sissy play.

Just like male chastity, sissy play is something unique to each slave. It’s up to you to figure out what you enjoy and then do it!

Finding Your Sissy Self

Now we know that simply being told to “do whatever you want” when you’re trying to explore new fetishes isn’t particularly helpful. So let’s talk a little about the different ways you can explore sissy play.

Role Reversal

One of the simplest ways to take on a more feminine role is to swap with your partner. She gets to take the lead in the relationship, and you take on the more submissive role.

This is something that chastity slaves are usually already familiar with, but can be applied to many different aspects of a relationship including:

• Decision making.
• Shopping.
• Household jobs and chores.
• Activity planning.
• And of course… sex!

Cross Dressing

A lot of men panic a little when cross dressing is put on the table, and it’s easy to understand why. While things that happen in the home are likely to stay private, getting caught wearing a frilly dress isn’t something that you’ll easily live down.

But cross dressing can be a lot of different things to a lot of different people. For some, just spending a day wearing their wife’s underwear is exciting enough. Others might try a full outfit for a fancy dress party.

At the more extreme end of the sissy spectrum are men who are completely transformed into women. They wear knickers, stuff a bra, and wear dresses. This kind of transformation can happen for a variety of reasons ranging from simple curiosity to complete gender dysphoria. Some men even enjoy the humiliation aspect of cross dressing!

Make Up

Following on somewhat naturally from wearing women’s clothes, the next step for many sissies is to start wearing make up. Once again though, this can take many forms.

Often it might start out with some simple eyeliner or mascara. Then a little foundation gets added. Soon it’s a touch of blusher and before you know it, you’re using make up to smooth out your more masculine features and have a full morning routine.

Sometimes this goes even further, straying into full on “drag queen”-esque looks. Bright and loud colors, overdone blusher and huge lashes can become a common feature for men who enjoy the humiliation side of sissy play.

Shaving and Waxing

As a man embraces more and more of his feminine side, taking away the different aspects of masculinity that he has left creates a natural progression. In this instance: body hair.

We all know that men are naturally hairier than women. A man wearing a cute cocktail dress, but still sporting hairy legs is obviously going to be spotted. So as men become more comfortable in their feminine role, they might shave or wax their excess body hair to achieve a more feminine look.

Sissy Names

While it might not seem like the most important thing in the world, for men who really want to get into character choosing a sissy name is a natural step.

Part time sissies or those suffering from gender dysphoria tend to choose a simple female name. Full time sissies and men who love to be humiliated might choose something a little more “out there”.

When you use your sissy name is entirely up to you. Sometimes you might be dressing up, but not feel like using the name and that’s completely fine. Some people want to use it all the time.

Simple Sissy or Sissy Slut?

So far we’ve talked about some of the various ways to explore sissy play, but often you’ll find men (and Mistresses) talking about sissy sluts. What’s the difference?

A lot of the time it’s simply down to the intensity of the play. While a sissy might wear a cute dress and call themselves a female name, a sissy slut is looking for much more. Usually they find it through either humiliation, or domination.

Humiliation is a little more complicated, as each men can find different things humiliating. Some men can enjoy wearing dresses and make up at home, but might find it very humiliating to wear those things in public. Being called a feminine name in public might be fine for one man, and uncomfortable for another. Some wives might even encourage their sissy husbands to go and hit on other men!

For men in male chastity, this kind of sissy play can take a different tact. Often they’ll be placed into increasingly smaller cages in cute colors like pink. Instead of a penis, they’ll have a “clitty” between their legs. And their Mistresses will take great pleasure in reminding them of how much of a pathetic and helpless sissy they are.

Domination takes a different approach, and often revolves around the bedroom. The phrase “used like a sissy slut” tends to come up often, and usually refers to sissy men who are penetrated anally for their pleasure, rather than using their penis. You can see why this kind of sissy play pairs so well with male chastity, as men in cages can’t use their penis.

For those (lucky?) slaves who are willing to fully embrace becoming a sissy slut, their Mistress might bring other men into the relationship for the slave to provide blowjobs for. She might let other men have sex with the slave. Or she might dress him up like a maid and have him servicing her and all her friends.

We’re All A Little Bit of a Sissy…

Sissy play is a huge and nuanced fetish, which can mean a ton of different things to different people. This article by no means covers everything. Think of it more like a taster session.

But it’s easy to see how small and simple changes to our lifestyles can fall under the umbrella of sissy play. So rather than asking if you’re a sissy, the real question should be how much of a sissy are you?