Fetishes and Male Chastity – Which Ones Work?
Falling under the BDSM umbrella, male chastity shares a lot with several different fetishes. Some slaves like to combine their love of locking their penis away with other passions for things like bondage or impact play.
But which fetishes work well with male chastity?
Naturally Overlapping Fetishes
Some fetishes don’t really need any extra work to be enjoyed during male chastity. They synergize well with the things you do during your pledge, and it’s entirely up to each slave and Mistress how much they engage with them.
The most notable of these is the Dominant and submissive dynamic.
When handing over control of their penis, the man naturally takes on a submissive role. By having control of the keys (and his freedom), the Mistress (or Master) naturally takes on a Dominant role.
For some, this is as far as it goes. Others like to lean into this further, expanding the dominance beyond simple orgasm control. It can become a form of control of all things sexual, control over who does what in the household, or even control over what activities you do.
Slaves who lean fully into this give up complete control of their lives to their dominant.
Another group of fetishes that makes complete sense to include in a chastity dynamic are Edging, Orgasm Control and Ruined Orgasms.
Chastity itself involves controlling a man’s ability to orgasm, so it only makes sense that other orgasm related fetishes are commonly explored.
Edging can be a great way for a Mistress to tease her slave, without necessarily giving him the orgasm he craves, or a way for a slave to test themselves and their own endurance.
Orgasm Control is a common theme in chastity relationships, with the slave only being allowed to orgasm when given permission by their dominant, even during sexual activity.
Ruined Orgasms can build on humiliation themes, provide a greater sense of control for the dominant, or act as a tool to frustrate the slave further.
Most men in chastity will experience some of these fetishes without necessarily knowing it, but making it a core part of their pledge can be a way to enhance their relationship.
Closely Related Fetishes
Some fetishes don’t naturally appear during a chastity pledge, but are things that many slaves and Mistresses will want to explore during their time together. These things fit neatly into the dynamic of dominance and submission that forms the core of this kind of relationship.
As the other two letters of BDSM, fetishes that explore sadism and masochism are a natural fit. This usually manifests as different forms of Impact Play which emphasizes the dominance and submission aspects of the relationship. In extreme cases, this can even turn into forms of Cock and Ball Torture.
Another natural progression builds on the restriction elements of male chastity play. Bondage Play extends the restriction to other parts of a slave’s body, and can provide an ideal environment for teasing through Sensation Play. This can even include Predicament Bondage, which gives the slave a choice between a more comfortable position and a less comfortable position.
Anal Play is another natural progression for chastity slaves, as they no longer have access to penile pleasure. Simple toys like butt plugs or even just fingering can give men an introduction to this kind of play, but some take this further and explore Pegging. Again this serves to deepen the dominance and submission elements of the relationship.
Similarly, Prostate Play serves as another avenue for orgasms, while Prostate Milking can build on humiliation elements of the relationship. Both explore the male prostate gland, and in some extreme cases it can become the only way a slave is allowed to experience pleasure.
As slaves become more comfortable with anal play, they may even begin to explore their feminine side through Sissy Play or Sissification. This sees them embracing elements of femininity, or in some cases being completely transformed into female slaves. For these slaves, anal may be the preferred method of pleasure, and some even refer to their caged penis as their “clitty”.
Loosely Related Fetishes
While the fetishes we’ve discussed so far are the kinds of thing a slave might naturally end up doing during their time in a cage, there are several fetishes that are much more loosely related to male chastity. These aren’t things that you can’t do during male chastity, but many people enjoy these things without ever becoming involved in chastity.
Public Humiliation is a fetish where people enjoy being humiliated in front of other people. This can take a huge range of forms, but in male chastity it often involves the slave being humiliated through other people knowing about their cage, or being “shown off” to the Mistress’s friends.
Autoerotic Asphyxiation and Latex Play tend to be closely related to each other, and both involve very extreme forms of restriction. Some slaves who progress from a cage to full bondage, may make the further leap to these fetishes.
Cuckolding and Orgies both involve bringing other sexual partners into the relationship. Slaves could be used as a pleasure toy for a group of Mistresses in an orgy, or could be forced to watch their Mistress have sex with another man because they themselves aren’t good enough to please her.
There’s a Fetish for Everything…
We’ve only scratched the surface when it comes to fetish play in this post. From feet to exhaust pipes, there really is a fetish for almost anything you could possibly think of.
But if we continued listing out fetishes here, we’d be drifting further and further away from male chastity, which is what we’re focused on at Total Chastity. That’s not to say you can’t find robots sexy and wear a cock cage, but the two things don’t really have a lot in common.
So whether you’re simply curious, or you’re an existing slave who’s looking to spice up your pledge, we hope this overview has given you a few things to think about. We haven’t gone into great detail on any of these fetishes, and over the coming months we plan to go into each one in more depth (and discuss enjoying it during male chastity). So if there’s one you’re interested in, keep your eyes peeled for our future posts!
